Mom's wisdom

"Here's the thing about life. You've got to find those fun things to have about life. This is not necessarily fun.
But you've got to find something fun." - Mom, on June 22, 2012.

Friday, October 4

Thank you!

Mom had a nice birthday this year - thank you to all her friends who stopped by to share cake, stories, laughs, and hugs. Thanks to all of you who sent birthday cards, they have filled up the desk in her room and 2 have even migrated to being tucked into the picture frame, because the desk didn't have enough room. It's wonderful to see the outpouring of love and greetings to Mom, she enjoyed reading notes and thinking about each of you. 

Mom is on hospice care now. She was able to retain the same home care nurse she's had for the last 15 months or so, and that has made the transition to hospice smooth. It's heartbreaking and sad, but it's a slow transition.  The past few weeks she's been resting comfortably, keeping her eyes closed most of the time, but enjoying listening to her tv shows. She's eating well, and the skin tears and bruises from her last hospital visit are mostly healed.  She's not in pain, and doesn't need pain medication, and for that we are very thankful.

For the past several weeks we've had a new daytime caregiver at the house, she is strong and energetic. She looks for ways around the house to help with when Mom is sleeping, and she is a pleasant and confident companion when Mom is awake.  It is a blessing to have her, along with Mom's nurse, on our team. 

This weekend, Mom's brother Ricky and niece Erin are here for a visit. Mom had an excellent day yesterday looking forward to seeing them!  The next few days will be energizing and fun as they share stories and memories together.  

Thanks again for your thoughts and support. 

ps... Dad's birthday is in October if you can help flood the house with more birthday cards :)


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