Mom's wisdom

"Here's the thing about life. You've got to find those fun things to have about life. This is not necessarily fun.
But you've got to find something fun." - Mom, on June 22, 2012.

Saturday, December 1

Advent Season!

Several days into this hospital stay, Mom is feeling somewhat better, but still has obstacles to overcome.  She was diagnosed with an infection and treated with a trio of antibiotics, which over the past few days have done a good job of restoring her hand movement.  We're still waiting for good progress with physical therapy, however, and her speech comes and goes, but one hurdle at a time. 

The steroid she's been taking since February has made her skin terribly thin and prone to easily tear.  I learned my lesson a few weeks ago when sliding a pillow under her arm, my ring caught the a small fold of skin around her elbow and ripped it right off. Just a little tear, but it wasted no time bleeding and then my attempt at a soft band-aid with gauze and paper tape caused further damage. She didn't even flinch when it happened, but we were both sad and the bruise which will take weeks to heal is shaped like a circle from the tape, with a little interior frown from the ring.  :(

We are enjoying the season, despite the bruises and tears.  Today at Starbucks I picked up a coffee and chocolate lover's Advent Calendar, and got a free skinny vanilla latte with purchase.   Before she opened it, she said "25!" and why would she say that without reading the label or me telling her what it was? It doesn't even look like the little Advent calendars she has given the girls in years past, the big flat ones with chocolate molded toys in each paper compartment. I was surprised she figured out what it was just by seeing a few numbers on a box.  This big Advent box is super cute, and the little doors give Mom something to look forward to each day, not to mention providing a challenge of how to open the tiny cardboard door each day. 

During lunch today we caught the end of a new(ish) version of Miracle on 34th Street, with an ending neither of us were familiar with.  She very clearly said, "I don't remember this part?!" and neither did I.  I think it's fascinating that she can remember what she doesn't remember, even though it's been at least a year since she's seen any version of that movie. 

We're happy to be at St. Paul for now, but are all looking forward to getting over to Zale Lipshy for some seriously good inpatient physical therapy.  We are hopeful that transition will take place in a few days, when this infection is cleared up, and some overall strength returns. 

2 comments:

Maryann Shaft said...

As always, sending prayers your way. Please post if your family needs anything.

Larry and Wanda said...

Thanks for keeping us up to date Alicia. Glad to read that Judy and you all are weathering this setback with your strength of family.